Showing posts with label Focused. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Focused. Show all posts

The Romance of Grace by Jim McNeely III


Title: The Romance of Grace
Author: Jim McNeely III

Book Information:
  • Publisher: Vox Dei (2013)
  • ISBN: 9781935961970
  • Page Count: 148
How did I get this book: A complimentary review copy was provided to me by Cross Focused Reviews (A Service of Cross Focused Media, LLC). I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255.

Review: Grace. In the Christian community, there tends to be much more material about what it isn't as opposed to what it is; Grace has been made out to be more of a scandal than a romance. However, Jim McNeely III tackles this subject head on and with a fresh approach in The Romance of Grace. 

"The kingdom of heaven is like something precious buried in a field, which a man found and hid again; then in his joy he goes and sells all he has and buys that field. Again the kingdom of heaven is like a man who is a dealer in search of fine and precious pearls, who, on finding a single pearl of great price, went and sold all he had and bought it." (Matthew 13:44-46)

This book starts off with a Princess Bride movie reference, which is fantastic, and then it gets deep real quick, "Like Buttercup, we have a great lover who saved us and has promised to come for us. Yet we treat His love like garbage, as though it were nothing...our greatest sin is that we give up true love. We fall short- not of our obligations, but of glory." (pg. 12)

"Since all have sinned and are falling short of the honor and glory which God bestows and receives." (Romans 3:23)

There are also multiple perspectives discussed here in delightful detail:
          The Human Perspective: The Kingdom of Heaven as Treasure
          The Divine Perspective: The Kingdom of Heaven as a Pearl Merchant

The Romance of Grace sufficiently conveys how important we are to God, and also gives one of the best definitions for the term 'Grace' that I have ever heard: 

"God, by His own initiative, likes us. There is none of this nonsense about "loving but not liking" with God. In fact, He is extremely taken with us, to the point of sacrificing all else to have us. We are not battling an attitude in God in which He is constantly ready to condemn us and reject us, ever focused on our flaws and shortcomings. Rather, He sees something wonderful in us. He has dealt definitively with our flaws, sins, and shortcomings because He wants these things completely swept out of the picture. He is excited about us. We are greatly loved, even as we presently stand. God has joy over finding us! It was from joy over it that He sold all that He had: "Looking away [from all that will distract] to Jesus, Who is the Leader and the Source of our faith [giving the first incentive for our belief] and is also its Finisher [bringing it to maturity and perfection]. He, for the joy [of obtaining the prize] that was set before Him, endured the cross, despising and ignoring the shame, and is now seated at the right hand of the throne of God." (Hebrews 12:2-5)"

Is it possible to say enough good things about this book in only one review? Regretfully, I don't think so. Just know that I gave it a strong five stars for very good reasons, and that you should go grab your own copy as soon as possible to find out why.

About the book: What if God sees us the way a man sees a woman he is infatuated with, and His main question is not how to make us moral but rather how to get us to fall in love with Him? In The Romance of Grace, Jim McNeely explores Bible passages that tell us what God really wants for us and what His love means. This is the love of a God who chose to give His life for ours, even carefully retaining His scars into the throne room of heaven and telling us in His very body, “I have gone to great lengths and great costs to say that I forsook all comforts for the love of you.” Join Jim in his exploration of life in God’s unconditional, redeeming, amazing grace.

About the Author: Jim McNeely is a teaching pastor and elder at Dakota Creek Christian Center in Blaine, Washington, where he lives with his wife, Betty, and their four sons. Formerly president of New Century Data, with clients such as Lockheed Martin and American Airlines, he now works as a programmer and database administrator in the health care industry.
Cool Extras:


  • Jim McNeely interviewed on episode 16 of Author Talks with Shaun Tabatt
  • Jim McNeely video interview about The Romance of Grace
  • Jim's Blog:  ThereforeNow.com
  • Jim McNeely on Twitter:  @JWMcneely
  • Jim McNeely on Facebook:  www.facebook.com/jim.mcneely
  • The Romance of Grace on Facebook:  www.facebook.com/TheRomanceOfGrace
  • Therefore Now Ministries on Facebook:  www.facebook.com/thereforenow


  • Praise for The Romance of Grace:
    “It is time, as Robert Farrar Capon put it, to get drunk on grace. Two hundred-proof, defiant grace. That’s what you get here in Jim’s book. You won’t see a list of qualifications, and you’ll get no “footnotes.” What you’ll encounter isgrace unmeasured, vast and free. It will frighten you and free you at the same time.” —Tullian Tchividjian, Pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church and author of Jesus + Nothing = Everything

    “So often we turn our faith in Christ into a forcing mechanism, which doesn’t work in any event; and if anything, produces disillusionment or hypocrisy. TheRomance of Grace is a prophetic book. I believe that unless we heed its call, to put grace absolutely without condition and frontally as the be-all and end-all of the Good News, we will lose completely, and not just in “the eyes of the world” but in the failure of well-intentioned religious lives that tried to love and never knew how.” —Paul F. M. Zahl, author of Grace in Practice: A Theology of Everyday Life

    “In The Romance of Grace we are confronted with a truth that we may have previously rejected. It seemed too easy to embrace. It lacked obligation on our part and contradicted accusations we have given credence to for the majority of our lives on earth. Yet herein lies the truth—“Not that we loved God, but that God loved us.” This book will help to right the plumb line in your life.” —David Collins, author of Out of the Box, founder of Canadian Food for the Hungry International.
    This review has also been posted on Amazon.

    Enter your email address:



    Parenting On Your Knees: Prayers and Practical Guidance for the Preschool Years by Vicki Tiede



    Title: Parenting On Your Knees: Prayers and Practical Guidance for the Preschool Years  
    Author: Vicki Tiede

    Book Information:
    • Publisher: Pix-N-Pens
    • ISBN: 9781938092299
    • Page Count: 190
    How did I get this book: A complimentary review copy was provided to me by Cross Focused Reviews (A Service of Cross Focused Media, LLC). I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255.

    Review: 
    "Arise [from your bed], cry out in the night, at the beginning of the watches; pour out your heart like water before the face of the Lord. Lift up your hands toward Him for the lives of your young children, who faint from hunger at the head of every street." 
    ~Lamentations 2:19

    "And He took them [the children up one by one] in His arms and [fervently invoked a] blessing, placing His hands upon them." ~Mark 10:16

    Children are sweet blessings. Raising them can seem like the best of times and the worst of times. There are many moments where you feel overwhelmed or like you can't make it, but then that one unexpected moment happens that makes it all worth it. This cycle could be repeated several times a day. It is important to remember in those times of need or being stretched beyond what we thought our limits were, that we are never alone. Children are sweet blessings from the Lord, and He longs for is to share everything with Him, lean on Him when needed, and take everything to Him in prayer. 
    •  "God has blessed you with this little one, to love and care for, but He wants to share in the joys, hopes, worries, and fears for this child. He doesn't expect you to travel this road solo. Going to God on behalf of your child helps you remember you are not parenting alone." ~pg.3 
    • "...parenting is a process, not an event. It's a journey, not a destination...[when we parent on our knees, we are] eye-to-eye with our children and looking up at Jesus, who wants to co-parent with us." ~pg.5

    "For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted my petition made to Him. Therefore I have given him to the Lord; as long as he lives he is given to the Lord. And they worshiped the Lord there." 1 Samuel 1:27-29

    God desires to spend time with you and to help you through this, and it is okay if that happens in creative and unexpected ways. Your prayer time may not look like anyone else's but that's okay. The goal is to connect with God in whatever way fits your current place on this ride called life.
    • "Time with God is not about academic study or getting through a certain amount of Scripture or any of that. It's about connecting with God. We've got to keep those lines of communication open, so use whatever helps. Sometimes I'll listen to music, other times I'll read, Scripture or a passage from a book; often I will journal; maybe I'll go for a run; then there are days when all I need is silence and solitude and the rising sun. The point is to simply do whatever brings me back to my heart and the heart of God." ~pgs.9-10
    • "When you pay your electric bills, pray that your children will know Jesus as the Light of the world. When you see a school bus, pray that your children will learn new skills and strive toward greater achievements. When you water your plants, pray that your children will grow healthy and strong." ~pg.10
    And what about quiet time? As a parent of multiple little ones, 'quiet' is the operative word. So what if the only time the house is quiet are those few minutes in between the kids being asleep for the night and you passing out as well? Never fear, Vicki Tiede offers helpful suggestions for this as well.
    • "As parents of little ones, you can do things such as: listen to worship music while you play with your children, pray in the car or shower, read Bible stories with your tots, listen to God in the middle of the night when you are up for a feeding." ~pg.11
    "Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He will give you the desires and secret petitions of your heart. ~Psalm 37:4  

    When praying for the character of your little ones, you can also pray that the Lord would help them to persevere.

    "And let us not lose heart and grow weary and faint in acting nobly and doing right, for in due time and at the appointed season we shall reap, if we do not loosen and relax our courage and faint." ~Galatians 6:9

    There are many creative ways to integrate the prayer life that you desire with your current life of madness that seems to frequently knock you to your knees. Above is just a taste of some of the wonderful wisdom and knowledge you can find in this gem of a book. 'Parenting On Your Knees' by Vicki Tiede is packed full of quick and helpful tips, refreshing honesty, and tons of humor. This is a book that the parent with absolutely no time will be able to find time to read, and they will be pleasantly surprised to find more than they bargained for. 

    'Parenting On Your Knees' by Vicki Tiede also contains actual prayers that you can pray with blanks to fill in for your applicable person and situation. In addition to this, there are even places to write your personal prayers, places to write how God answered your prayers, and also parenting resources sprinkled throughout this delightful work in case you desire to read additional material on a certain topic. 

    I enthusiastically recommend this book and urge you to grab a copy for yourself as soon as you possibly can. Sometimes parenting may knock us to our knees, but after becoming equipped with the knowledge in this book, you will have knee pads to land on, as well as the tools to intersperse parts of the changes you desire to see, into the life that you already have. This difficult and rewarding time won't overcome you, the storm won't last, and God is waiting and ready to help you make the most out of Parenting On Your Knees.   

    About the Author: Vicki Tiede, MEd, MMin, is a Bible teacher; conference speaker; author of When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart (2012) and Plug Me In and Let Me Charge Overnight (2009). Her passion is to share God’s grace and faithfulness with women through the Scriptures. Vicki transparently relates life experiences that resonate and draw others into a lifelong pursuit of knowing God. Living in Rochester, Minnesota, Vicki is also a wife, homeschooling mom, and women’s ministries coordinator at her local church. You can learn more about Vicki Tiede and her writing at www.vickitiede.com. 

    An interview with Vicki Tiede about Parenting On Your Knees can be found here.

    This review has also been posted on Amazon and Goodreads.


    Page Views:

    Enter your email address:


    Delivered by FeedBurner

    Ruth: From Bitter to Sweet by John Currid



    Title: Ruth: From Bitter to Sweet

    Author: John Currid

    How did I get this book: A complimentary review copy was provided to me by Cross Focused Reviews (A Service of Cross Focused Media, LLC). I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255.

    Review: This wonderful work from the Welwyn Commentary Series is rich, insightful, and beautifully composed. It is obvious that a lot of time, work and research went into this book, but it is still written in a way that is organized, concise, and easy to understand. Ruth: From Bitter to Sweet by John Currid reads well, and is not overwhelming or written above the reader's head, as some commentaries sometimes seem to be.

    The structure of this commentary follows the Book of Ruth from the Bible, and contains comprehensive insight on the following elements (taken from the Contents):

    • Part 1: Setting the scene (Ruth 1:1-5)
      • The setting of suffering (Ruth 1:-5)
    • Part 2: Naomi and her Moabite daughters-in-law (Ruth 1:6-22)
      • Graciousness in the midst of suffering (Ruth 1:6-9)
      • Orpah and Ruth respond (Ruth 1:10-14)
      • Ruth's confession (Ruth 1:15-18)
      • Homecoming (Ruth 1:19-22)
    • Part 3: In the fields of Bethlehem (Ruth 2:1-23)
      • Ruth gleans in the fields (Ruth 2:1-7)
      • Conversations between Ruth and Boaz (Ruth 2:8-17)
      • Ruth reports to Naomi (Ruth 2:18-23)
    • Part 4: The scene at the threshing floor (Ruth 3:1-18)
      • Naomi's plan (Ruth 3:1-6)
      • At the threshing floor (Ruth 3:7-13)
      • Back to Bethlehem (Ruth 3:14-18)
    • Part 5: Redemption (Ruth 4:1-22)
      • The courtroom scene (Ruth 4:1-12)
      • The descendant (Ruth 4:13-22)
    In addition to adding enhancing detail to this beautiful story, the format of this novel is also really well done. Virtually every page of this 137 page commentary consists of a few small bite-sized Bible verses followed by a few sentences to expound upon the material.

    I highly recommend Ruth: From Bitter to Sweet by John Currid. I expect that after reading it, the book of Ruth will come alive even more so each time you go through the Bible during your devotional time.

    EXTRAS:



    This review has also been posted on Amazon and Goodreads.

    Page Views:
    Enter your email address:


    Delivered by FeedBurner